Conflict doesn’t start with a storm — it starts with a spark. A sharp word. A sarcastic post. A refusal to forgive. Proverbs tells us that “starting a quarrel is like opening a floodgate” (Proverbs 17:14, NLT). And once that gate is lifted, the damage spreads fast. Many relationships haven’t been ruined by one major explosion, but by a steady leak of pride, ego, and the need to be right. That’s why the wisest people learn not just how to fight — but when to walk away.

Jesus didn’t say, “Blessed are the right” — He said, “Blessed are the peacemakers.” And being a peacemaker doesn’t mean we ignore truth, but that we speak it in love. It means we stop chasing “wins” in arguments and start fighting for peace in our homes, our churches, and our conversations. Sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do is be quiet, forgive, and let God defend you.

Maybe today, God is asking you to stop lifting the floodgate, close the door on drama, and open your heart to healing. A crust with peace is far better than a feast with conflict. Choose peace — not just for yourself, but for the people around you. 

Just a thought,

PSS

Proverbs 16:1,3,9

We all make plans. We plan our days, our futures, our families, even our vacations. But here’s the real question: are we planning with God or just asking Him to bless what we’ve already decided? Proverbs 16 reminds us that while we can make our own plans, it’s the Lord who gives the right answer and determines our steps. Planning isn’t the problem — planning without God is.

Most people roll their problems to God, but not their plans. We wait until things fall apart, then beg Him to clean up the mess. But God doesn’t want to be our last resort — He wants to be our starting point. Wisdom says, “Commit your actions to the Lord, and your plans will succeed.” That Hebrew word galal means “to roll” — it’s not just handing something over; it’s transferring the full weight and ownership to Him.

Here’s the truth: surrendering to God’s will doesn’t mean giving up on success — it means trusting Him with the definition of success. Joseph had a God-given dream, but the road looked nothing like what he expected. Betrayal, slavery, prison. Yet through it all, God was directing his steps. Don’t assume delays mean defeat. Trust Him with the plan — and the process.

Just a thought,

PSS

You can fool people with performance, but you can’t fool God. People see the outside — God sees the heart. He knows your motives, your desires, your intentions. That’s not just a warning for those playing games — it’s a comfort to those walking in integrity. Even if no one else sees your faithfulness, your quiet obedience, or your honest pursuit of Him — God does. And He responds to what’s real.

Religion knows how to put on a show. You can raise your hands in worship, serve faithfully, even quote Scripture — and still have a heart far from God. What moves God isn’t outward behavior — it’s inward surrender. He’s not looking for perfect people; He’s looking for honest ones. The tax collector in Luke 18 didn’t have it all together, but he humbled himself — and Jesus said he went home justified.

So today, let this be a reminder: God isn’t asking you to be impressive — He’s asking you to be honest. Drop the act. Stop trying to fake it. Let your pursuit be real. Because God doesn’t miss a thing — and He delights in the one who humbles himself before Him.

Just a thought,

PSS

In a world that constantly shouts, “Live your truth” and “Follow your heart,” Proverbs gives us a better starting point: Fear the Lord. That’s not about terror — it’s about honor, reverence, and trusting God more than we trust ourselves. When you fear the Lord, you don’t cave to culture. You don’t chase every new idea. You stay rooted, even when everything around you feels shaky.

The Bible warns us that there’s a path that seems right but ends in death (Proverbs 14:12). That means our feelings aren’t always a good guide. What feels good isn’t always good. And what feels right isn’t always right. When we remove the fear of God, we remove the foundation of truth — and when truth goes, confusion takes over. But when God is your foundation, clarity comes. Peace comes. Life begins.

So don’t let the world disciple you. Don’t trade truth for trends or applause. The fear of the Lord is a life-giving fountain. Let’s choose God’s wisdom over the world’s noise — because when truth is restored, life is restored.

Just a thought,  

PSS

We’ve all been there — praying, believing, waiting … and then silence. No breakthrough. No answer. Just delay. Proverbs 13:12 says, Hope deferred makes the heart sick. It doesn’t just mess with your plans — it messes with your soul. Disappointment can creep in like a slow leak, draining your strength and testing your faith. But delay doesn’t mean denial. God’s timeline may not match yours, but His faithfulness always holds.

The rest of that verse says, but a dream fulfilled is a tree of life. That’s not just about getting what you want — it’s pointing to something deeper. In Genesis and Revelation, the tree of life represents eternal communion with God. In other words, even when your hope is deferred, God is working toward a fulfillment bigger than your moment — He’s anchoring you to eternity.

So, if you’re in a season of waiting, don’t give up. Hope in Jesus never dies. It’s never lost — just not done yet. Keep walking, even if it feels like Emmaus. Jesus is walking beside you. Your story isn’t over — He’s still writing it.

Just a thought,

PSS